"Earth's crammed with heaven, And every common bush afire with God, But only he who sees takes off his shoes, The rest sit 'round it and pluck blackberries."

- Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Aurora Leigh

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Impending Disaster???

Over the past year or so I have spent some time loosely investigating homeschooling.


Don't hyperventilate!!! Besides, you already knew I was weird. And anyway, Justin and my mother are hyperventilating enough for everyone.

First, I did it simply because I read Pioneer Woman and it was fun to read about projects, and office supplies, and interesting books.


I think this dates back to walking around "Perry's" in the Cottonwood Mall and trying out all the nifty pens they sold there. Or maybe it comes from all the stationary I made my mom buy me as a child. Even though I had no reason to own it. Or maybe it comes from stalking bookstores and libraries from a very young age.


Second, I joined a book group with a friend from MBASA who homeschools her kids, and we read "A Thomas Jefferson Education."


I agreed with many of the author's points, but thought he was slightly insane due to the foreward of the book. I also didn't think a person could really learn math and such just from reading classic books.


But, reading the book did make me check out different books at the library for E to read, so I figured it worked out okay.


During this particular homeschooling storm, Justin just closed his eyes and hoped it would all blow over. Luckily for him, it did.


But, you know, Pioneer Woman still posts some really interesting posts about supplies.


And oh, how I love supplies.


First, it was the Usborne Books.


These aren't actually sold at stores, but they are great non-fiction books on about a gazillion bazillion topics. Yes, that number is exact.


Then, it was a four part series that tells the history of the world in narrative form: "The Story of the World." I read a few pages on Amazon, and knew E would love it because it was simply a story. And let me tell you, that girl loves a good story.


This series led me to the author of "The Story of the World" : Susan Wise Bauer


and to a book of hers called: "The Well Trained Mind, A Guide to Classical Education."


This particular book takes the classical slant I liked so well from the Thomas Jefferson book and actually sets out a real learning program that makes sense to me. It makes it seem conceivable that a person could homeschool their children and have them come out knowing more than they would from a public school.


And it has supply lists at the end of every chapter.


Uh oh.


I should say, I don't think public schools are horrible. My sister is the best Dang Math Teacher in the World... and I exaggerate not. Ask anybody who's anybody. My cousin is an amazing elementary teacher. They put on almost 80 plays a year and do art projects and learn math by road trip and other such exciting things.


But I was in public school once. I was even in the "gifted" portion of the public school system. And I know the names of the elementary teachers that fell asleep at their desks for the majority of the day. And I know that the majority of a class of "gifted" students failed their AP History exam because our teacher was more interested in us raising our hands and asking a certain quota of questions per day than in making sure we were actually knew our history. It just seems like a crap shoot to me, as to whether you get a good teacher or not.


Justin thinks the crap shoot is necessary. He thinks it builds life skills with dealing with inadequate situations. I see that, I do. I'm just not sold on it.


I should also say this is not because I am afraid to let E out of the house. I was the one that insisted E go to preschool this year because I thought she needed it, I thought I needed it, I thought our house would stay standing longer if we did it. The idea of homeschooling being done at - I don't know - home, is slightly disturbing to me.


But, I still can't get it out of my head. Because I know that people are capable of learning so much more than they do. And I want that for my children.


And, lets face it, I want all the books on the supply lists.


But I swear that's not the only reason why.

Too bad everyone thinks I'm crazy.

6 comments:

Heather said...

Thank you for posting all these books. I'm like you, I love the idea of homeschooling, but for us, I know it wouldn't work. I think I would be doing my kids a disservice by homeschooling them. That being said, I know that I need to be teaching them more at home. I can't expect them to learn everything that they need to know just by sending them off to school everyday. I've been toying with the idea of supplementing their education at home. I want our house to be a house of learning, but I haven't known where to start. So, thank you again for posting these books. It gives me a lot to think about!

Joyful Mother of Children said...

We are homeschooling and it's extremely hard most days, but very rewarding. I read the Thomas Jefferson education as well. I got excited because I loved the concept, but I agree that it is lacking. This was our first year using the k12 program. I love it. The lessons are already mapped out for you. They send you, get this, LOTS OF BOOKS! It was like Christmas opening the boxes that came to our home. We had about 10 boxes for our 4 kids. That's the other thing, if you have an interest in homeschooling start with it now. I started with a Kindergartener, 1st, 3rd and 4th graders. It's challenging schooling 4 but I'm finally figuring it out. There have been many days I've wanted to put my kids back in school. You just have to do what is best for your family. I go year by year. Anyway, I could go on and on. Let me know if you ever want to talk about it.

Mrs. Poff said...

I have seen both good and bad results of homeschooling. I have had numerous kids in my class that have come back to public school in the upper grades for the harder more serious classes...some have been well educated both academically and socially and others are lacking in both areas....so as everything it comes back to the home. Even kids in public school do well in my opinion for the most part due to their home life....so your kids have it made because whichever you choose they have you for mother!

Paula Wood said...

Well, your mother-in-law DOESN'T "think you are crazy," however, she, also considered home schooling, but decided that SHE MIGHT GO CRAZY if SHE tried it!

However, your mother-in-law is also a book lover to the point of concern...since she IS a counselor and recognizes that there are possible signs of her personally having the symptomology for "hoarding" each time she walks into her library....

SOOOO, if you decide to send the kids to school, and want to supplement what they learn there with some of those books you are talking about....

GRANDMA PAULA LOVES BUYING BOOKS!!!
Would LOVE to contribute to the "book fund."

Grandma Paula also has total confidence in the way the parents in your home go about making decisions, so....she'll be curiously watching what the two of you decide to do!

Love,
Grandma Paula

AnnalisaG said...

I could have written this post myself because I've been debating the same thing! My oldest went to kindergarten this year and her experience was enough to make me want to yank her out and homeschool her at least once a week for the whole year. I continue to weigh the pros and cons.

Claire said...

Good for you for thinking about it! I think the biggest disservice we do to our kids is to not even consider options other than public school. In fact, I think we do ourselves a great disservice by just going along with what everybody else does. Question this world we live in, pray about it, and then make educated decisions.

Okay, off my soap box...